Life Beyond Control

Most of us know what it feels like to grip tightly — to hold on, to organise, to manage, to control.

And most of us also know what it feels like to lose that control — to spin out, to collapse, to feel like we're a pawn to play in a life that is running us, instead of moving through us.



This three-part journey is designed to reveal where we’re holding on and where we can soften and relax into life’s natural flow.


Together, we’ll explore the reasons, behaviours, influences, and emotional states that bind us to the polarity of Control vs. Out of Control — the very tension that defines how we meet change, trust, and surrender.
 


The corners of consciousness we’ll explore: 
 - The Desire for Control
 - The Fear of Control
 - The Desire to be Out of Control
 - The Fear of Being Out of Control



What Is the Polarity Process?
 


The Polarity Process is a precise method of inner work developed to reveal, integrate, and dissolve the dualistic patterns that drive our suffering.



By identifying a charged emotional theme — like control vs. out of control, belonging vs. isolation, or hiding vs. being seen — we learn to explore both sides fully: the desire and the fear.



As we process through each pole with curiosity and awareness, the emotional charge begins to soften, and a higher witnessing state arises — one that naturally brings peace, clarity, and integration.



You’ll learn to:

• Recognise where control shows up as contraction, rigidity, or over-responsibility

• Notice where loss of control leads to avoidance, collapse, or disconnection

• Work with emotional charge through a structured yet intuitive inquiry process

• Anchor a deeper state of trust and alignment — the Ascended Balance Point beyond control and chaos
   

This work goes beyond self-improvement.
It’s not about mastering control or abandoning it, but about discovering the still centre where life can move freely through you, with ease & grace. 
 
 



The Power of the Circle



This workshop series is not taught from hierarchy. Matt holds a circle — a collectively empowered space where each person meets another at eye level.



While the Polarity Process can be profoundly effective as a solo practice, its power amplifies in group presence. Within the circle, we mirror one another’s vulnerabilities and complexities, realising that our struggles are not isolated but shared across the human field.

This reflection is what allows transformation to deepen — not by fixing, but by witnessing.
 
 



Your Guide



Matt Teague has spent the past five years applying polarity processing rigorously to his own life and consciousness. In doing so, he’s released deeply embedded patterns of control, perfectionism, and self-judgement — finding greater peace and trust in the natural intelligence of life.



His wish is simple: to share this method as a means of collective liberation, so that together we can transmute polarised consciousness, relieve suffering, and live more heart-centred, authentic lives.





What’s Included



Across three live group sessions (over three weeks), you’ll be guided through a full polarity process while being supported to continue between sessions with written prompts and structured reflection.



Session 1 – Initiation

Learn the Polarity Process and begin your first exploration: The Desire for Control & The Fear of Control
Notice where control arises, how it protects, and what it fears losing.



Session 2 – Integration

Move into the complementary pole: The Desire to be Out of Control & The Fear of being Out of Control
Explore how letting go, risk, and surrender play out in your body and life.



Session 3 – Transformation

Having finished processing all four corners of the polarity, you are able to feel into your Ascended Balance Point — a state of embodied trust that transcends both holding and releasing.



Between sessions, you’ll receive a downloadable guide, journaling prompts, and the framework to deepen your process privately or with peers.




Format & Flow



Live Group Sessions: 3 × 90-minute Zoom calls over 3 weeks

Self-Practice Between Sessions: Reflection worksheets, journaling prompts, and optional peer exchange

Optional 1:1 Deepening: Private integration sessions available after the group journey


Investment
This work is offered in the spirit of sovereignty and trust.


Please choose the tier that best reflects your means and commitment.

Community Tier – €100

For those in transition or experiencing financial hardship.

Standard Tier – €130

Reflects the full value of the process and support materials.

Supporter Tier – €170

For those in financial flow who wish to support others’ access to this work.

All tiers include:

• 3 × 90-minute live group sessions

• Session recordings for those unable to attend live 

• Downloadable Polarity Process Guide

• Between-session practices & reflection structure

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